Mrs. Ifeyinwa and Mr. Chinedu Ogbunyiba, a couple originally from Anambra State and currently based in Lagos, shared with The Punch their long and trying journey toward parenthood; a path marked by delayed conception, a difficult fibroid surgery, and the weight of societal expectations over 16 years.
When asked to reflect on how it all began, Mrs. Ifeyinwa recounted a story familiar to many couples who quietly navigate similar struggles. She described it as a journey shaped by hope, setbacks, and, ultimately, fulfillment.
A businesswoman by profession, said she hails from Anambra State but now resides in Lagos. She met her future husband while they were both undergraduates at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, where they studied Accountancy, though he was two years her senior. After completing their studies in 2005, he expressed his intentions to formalize their union, culminating in the payment of her bride price on January 6, 2006.
At the time, finishing their education took precedence, and thoughts of starting a family were set aside. Their church and traditional wedding later took place on April 18, 2009, after which they were eager to welcome children. What followed, however, was a prolonged period of challenges and waiting that stretched across 16 years before they finally embraced parenthood.
When asked how they managed to stay resilient through such a prolonged and emotionally taxing experience, the couple reflected on the strength drawn from patience, mutual support, and a steadfast belief that their journey would ultimately bear fruit.
She said, “My husband left the house; he was involved with another woman, but he still supported me financially. If I requested an amount for my upkeep, he often sent much more than I asked. I was confused, but I took it in my stride.
I even confronted my husband about the other woman, and he initially denied it. Later, I learnt that the woman was pregnant, and my brother-in-law informed me that my husband was planning to marry her traditionally.”
Despite the hurt and sense of betrayal, I remained resilient, concentrating on what was within my control. Over time, the relationship with the other woman came to an end, life slowly settled back into its rhythm, and my husband returned home.
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