As A Man Coming Back From Work How Will You React To This: Mother In-Law Gives Newborn Baby Multiple Tribal Marks Without Parents’ Consent

A father returning from work in was met with shock after discovering that his mother-in-law had given his newborn baby tribal marks without the parents’ knowledge or approval.

According to family sources, the incident occurred while the mother was resting and the grandmother was left to care for the infant. The father said he noticed fresh cuts on the baby’s face upon arrival and was told by relatives that the marks were done in line with tradition.

Tribal marking, a practice once common in parts of Nigeria and other West African countries, involves making incisions on the face or body for identification, cultural identity, or perceived protection. In recent decades, the practice has declined significantly due to health risks and changing social attitudes. Medical experts warn that the procedure, often performed with unsterilized tools, can lead to infections, scarring, and complications such as tetanus.

The father described feeling anger and helplessness upon seeing the marks. “It’s my child. No one should make a permanent decision about her body without talking to me and my wife first,” he said.

Legal experts note that under Nigerian law, parents are the legal guardians of their children and are responsible for giving consent for medical and non-medical procedures. Carrying out a permanent alteration without that consent can constitute assault and a breach of parental rights.

Child protection advocates say the case highlights the tension between cultural practices and modern parenting standards. They urge families to have clear conversations about traditions before a child is born to avoid conflict.

“This is not about disrespecting elders, but about protecting the child,” said a Lagos-based child rights lawyer. “If parents decide against tribal marks, that decision should be respected by everyone in the family.”

The incident has sparked discussion on social media, with many users sharing similar experiences and calling for stronger awareness of the health risks linked to traditional marking. Others stressed the need for grandparents and extended family to seek permission before making decisions for a newborn.

The parents say they have taken the baby to a pediatrician for examination and wound care. They also stated that they have spoken to the grandmother and made it clear that no further procedures would be carried out without their consent….See More